Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 and Part 4 of this blog series about being less sperm, more egg led many of you to send me private emails asking me to address how to find the right balance of being “spermy” – striving, pushing, applying disciplined action – and being “eggy” – attracting, receiving, allowing opportunities to come to you. So by special request, this blog is for you.
It’s definitely possible to be too “eggy.” I know many people who are fans of the law of attraction and believe that if they just put their desire out there, the Universe will serve up whatever they desire on a silver platter. One of my clients went to school to become a life coach, then she placed her order with the Universe – “Please send the perfect clients my way.”
But nobody showed up. And she was baffled. When she asked for my guidance, I said, “Well, it might help those perfect clients find you if you registered a URL, set up a website, sent out an email announcing your services to everyone you know, and then posted it on social media.” Doing these things falls into the “spermy” category, and she resisted, trusting that clients would just come her way. But they didn’t. When she finally applied these spermy actions, she was flooded with clients.