by Karoline | Apr 22, 2025 | Healing, Relationships, Trust
It’s not your fault if nobody ever taught you how to be in a healthy relationship. If you grew up in a house with at least one selfabsorbed narcissistic parent who didn’t model a healthy, balanced relationship for you. Or even worse, if one of your caregivers was a...
by Karoline | Apr 15, 2025 | Social Justice
I have a lot going on in my personal life right now. I’m moving out of the Muir Beach home I’ve inhabited for 17 years of my life, the home where I raised my daughter, who has now left me with an empty nest that is not the home I raised her in. My...
by Karoline | Apr 12, 2025 | Creativity, Healing, IFS, Mental Health, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Trust
As I explained in my blog about IFS-informed Dating and Dating The Day Democracy Died, I learned a ton about myself and my own parts by going on about thirty first dates before I wound up with my current partner Jeffrey Rediger, who I met at a trauma conference we...
by Karoline | Apr 8, 2025 | Healing, Relationships, Sexuality
When I embarked upon my online dating experiment in January 2021 and went on about thirty first dates, I took advantage of the opportunity to write about all my dates and notice which parts of me showed up on each date. I thought I had a pretty stable sense of self...
by Karoline | Apr 1, 2025 | Healing, Mental Health, Relationships, Sexuality
Before the pandemic, I’d been intentionally single because I was in a phase of trauma healing recovery that needed me to focus on my own needs and healing. My inclination towards codependent love addiction and making someone else’s needs matter more than my own was...
