Do We Really Create Our Own Reality?

Do We Really Create Our Own Reality?

There's a school of thought in spiritual circles that ascribes to the idea that everything that happens in our lives—the blissful things, the growth edge things, the horrid things—all happens with purpose. This spiritual teaching suggests that everything reflected...

Soften into the Pain

Soften into the Pain

Communing with the Pueblo ancestors at Bandelier National Monument In the past couple of weeks, three people I love dearly died. Two were quite young and died tragically. Scott Dinsmore Scott was a beloved friend whose hand I held as he skyrocketed to very quick,...

Two Ways to Open the Heart

Two Ways to Open the Heart

Mount Shasta at dawn. Take a moment and do a little exercise with me, if you feel inspired to do so. Consider someone you really loved and lost. Remember the feel of that person, the joy he or she evoked in you. Pull up a memory of how you felt when you were...

Dating on the Spiritual Path

Dating on the Spiritual Path

Except for a few short term bursts of relationship, I’ve been mostly single for three years after twelve years of marriage ended in divorce, and jeez, things have changed in my dating process since last time I was single. My old list of “What I Want in a Partner”...